Practical Wisdom for Stronger Lives & Healthier Relationships
Empowering Change Insights is where practical counseling meets meaningful, real-life transformation and application. Here you’ll find guidance, clarity, and real-world tools and perspectives for creating healthier relationships, deeper emotional resilience, and lasting personal change. My intention is to offer insight that empowers—and wisdom that stays with you for life.

By Lisa Meyer
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December 11, 2025
The cool, dry air of December, Christmas lights lining streets and homes, greenery and bows on every doorway, mankind being a little more patient, and children a little more joyful — all are inescapable indicators that the Christmas season is upon us. As we gather with friends and family over the next month, not all gatherings are ones we look forward to. None of our families depict the images curated by Currier and Ives or Hallmark movies. Most family Christmases are a little more like National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. (Hah!) Families can be messy — and most have a few sticky spots. While most people genuinely love their families, even loving families can be a tad bit messy. Balancing this with a spouse and their side of the family — and all that entails — can feel daunting. Usually, your spouse’s family, respectfully and playfully, has a whole different brand of “crazy” than yours! Below are a few strategies for navigating three of the most common holiday dilemmas around “where we spend Christmas” and how to approach it:
About the Author
Lisa Meyer, M.A., LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor serving Cumming and North Georgia since 2001.
Focus: marriage/couples counseling, intensives, and solution-focused individual therapy.






